Ah The Holidays

It is a few days before the Christmas holiday and we are really not ready at all. The tree is not up and we do not have presents for each other. We do have lots of presents for the dogs, cats, chickens and fish. I would like to say that it has been an overwhelming year, yet that is not my sense. We have been busy and remain busy, yet it does not seem overwhelming. It has been a happy peaceful year in so many ways. There has been drama, yet it did not seem to stick to us this year like it has in the past. It has been this ability to let the drama slide through and pass us that has made all the difference this year. Perhaps we have grown and evolved a bit this year.

It is always my desire to reach the end of the year having felt like I have shifted and changed my point of view. This year something else has shifted and I have discovered that it is having a point of view that has in the past left me stuck and trapped by my own baggage. It is a subtle thing to understand that your point of view may not be as important as you think. What I am finding is that in any given moment I can change my point of view by changing my perspective. And I am finding that my partner is also doing this although she may not be aware of it. We are looking at situations in different ways and perhaps being a bit kinder in the conclusions that we draw (if we decide to draw any conclusions at all). The things that do not resonate energetically with us are just passing through our life and drifting away.

There is a new awareness creeping in and perhaps this is the most important thing about this year. I hesitate to have a point of view about all of this and instead will stand in what unfolds.